Write-down for NIRVANA

Today I was casually musing over the vicissitudes of life and a thought irrupted into my mind "Whether I have achieved all what I intended to be". And it took me more than an hour to figure out what exactly I intended a couple of years ago. Admittedly I "thought about" doing a few things but precisely I can't zero in what was the GOAL.No doubt there were lot of preferences but I cant use them as a touchstone to measure my performance.

And as John Abrahim says in "fair one" advertisement with a scale of skin shades in his hand "Performance voh hai jisse main measure kar sakun" I fall totally incongrous with him, because I dont have any scale using which I can measure my performance(he excelled me marginally with a 2 rupey ka scale,kamina).This actually made me really concerned about the importance of a PERFORMANCE METER.

Any time this word GOAL stuck our ear chords we think of something we want to do,lets Pat on the back that means that we have a goal but sometimes with the passage of time it fades away due to various "VALID" reasons like marriage, competetion etc and simultaneusly we also keep cultivating new so called "GOALS" and this keep on recurring and we end up as an successfull outcome of the circumstances and that because we had "first class" GOAL/s.

Don't feel stuffed here "first class" refers to the successive level after KG and the goals follows are "main pilot banunga" kind of goals and most of them ends up writing CAT or IIT eventually.

I will like to cite an example from the movie DUS VIDANIAN, in which the inner self of the protagonist insisted him to actually write down 10 specific goals on paper based on his enshrouded desires and if he get those it will blow his mind.Then only he actually started giving his best and he experienced the challenges that life can crop up if you want something coveted and finally the ulitimate NIRVANA. Also during his voyage he kept referring his list of GOALs all along that aided him accomplish all ten of them.

If we actually have a written list of GOAL/s wether a chart on a wall, or a list always at our disposal we can timely measure our performance and these will also not fade away(use a good ball pen).and then we will be real "First class" successfull people.
Imagine that you have achieved what you desperately wanted , experience that bliss and that will be the state of NIRVANA that you can experience only if you aciheved your "MOST WANTED" desires.
don't you want to be in a state when "In the persuit of happiness will smith sobbed when he was selected as the stock broker"That is the state of NIRVANA--the ultimate bliss.

so get a pen and paper/chart write it out what you actually want to achieve, you think you are born for or some adventures you want to experience etc etc etc etc.

CAUTION: while writing goals just think about "if I get this I will be the happiest person in the world(period)"

am I your best friend !?!

Amidst a discussion she asked me "am I your best friend" and I had to optimize a pause to answer this bouncer in my "as usual diplomatic" style yes you are one of my best friends followed by her unsatiated trite "haan nee to".

Is it requisite that we have to clearly set the ist, 2nd and 3rd best friends like a class results on the notice board, or is it even better to follow the JEE pattern and rank top 20 friends 1 to 20 , or even better to follow the proposed CBSE grading system and assign the bands A+,A,B,C to all in the fray.

We explore a whole new angle to live the life with each "best friend". Does'nt having many best friends opens up the possibilitiy to view life 360 degrees,then why to be content with one best friend when many best friends may bring much more to life at the cost a wrong grammar usage of the word 'best'.Would'nt life be more enchanting to live a 'dil chahta hai' style of life which was more about friendship and also to waver off the age bar in love.

"Best Friends" bring new application of mathematics into life they Add the funny experiences, subtract the worries, divide the magnitude of happiness by zero , and unfortunately multiply the number of Girl friends by "ZERO" also. "best friends"are the significant ingredient in the appetizing recipe of life.

Why to confine yourself in the orbit of predefined notions lets think with a wider span of eyes and explore new flavors of living.Lets have many "best friends"..

well the honest answer to her inquiry is " i dont know par mujhe tujhse acchi ladki nai mil sakti"

Happy best friending friends..

What to think about....

Quite a bouncing title of the blog "think over life" oh gosh! freaked of this thinking stuff, and that too on the cliches having to do with "LIFE". Well what's there to mull over? Are we up to echoing the flashback around X-girlfriend/boyfriends, Accidents, break ups , struggles, being hangdog ,vanilla flavor jobs etc hold on ,Let's sail a little awry this time.

Why not try to take a profound eyeshot on life, is'nt it worth that treasure.Shall we pass it over in haste and levity without feeling its bass. Or does it seems dear to rue after some years that a lot could be went through if we were not living as a "lost somewhere" species.

So lets be on the ball to unwrap what could be done with this overused term called 'LIFE'.
What's the best composition and in what proportion we need to mix it to get the most sublime colada.Is the world the same the way it is or is it a perception of our so called 'belief system'.

I think that a human life have much more to muse than " how to impress a girl"(rated most popular on search engines) and lets figure out some new angles of pursuing the 'LIFE' and then "how to impress a girl" stuff will be a lot more easier and joyous. Why not tempt to make our relationships, careers , health , moods better to a greater extent and cherish this priceless colada of life.

Can we claim that our lives are as balanced and content as it should be? Or lets flee from the situation that life is not about everything you desire. Are we 100% honest to ourselves that what we are doing is same as we always wanted to do? or what now I want to do is because it "seems good" vis a vis what I actually wanted to do. Is there any "seem good" factor or "What if" concern being eclipsed by "being practical" notion.

Is happiness a state of mind or the side effect of the outcome of an event.Or does being spiritual means to overcome the gravitaional force and meditate 2 feet above in space, and does "How to impress a girl" websites really work.

If not much, Life has got something to 'think over'